Most of us enjoy a good adult session and love the feeling of being fully satisfied afterwards. The thing is, a good session does not always result in complete satisfaction. This is where introducing adult toys can elevate your experience. We are not talking about just adding some good poppers in the UK to the proceedings. No, this is about introducing actual toys or gay fetish gear to ensure maximum satisfaction or achieve sensations that can only be reached with some help. Before we get into specific products, here are some topics that will also assist.
No more taboo
Not that many years ago, adult toys were seen as a bit of a taboo. As if using them made you dirty, or the fact that you used toys might be an indication that you could not get any action or satisfaction without them. Walking into an adult store would require some confidence in those days. This was for just personal use, let alone suggesting it to a partner. Introducing a bottle of rush poppers is fine but a sex toy?! This would almost imply that what the other person is offering is not good enough.
Thankfully, those days have past, but it can still be a nervous situation introducing a product into the mix. When I did it the first time, I was afraid he would assume that he did not satisfy me, which he totally did. For me, it was more to add something a human can’t physically do. In this case, I wanted to use a cock strap attached to an anal butt plug during action. He was totally fine with that, we also progressed to using a huge anal dildo which was great. What I have learned is that mentioning beforehand that you have some products that might be fun to use reduces any barrier you might feel during the action. That brings me to the following.
Communication
This is key. Expressing your desires and asking after his/theirs/hers is a great way to introduce new elements to the proceedings. I found that explaining the feeling you are after is often better than just saying, I would like to use gay sex toys. This will allow the other person to be creative and provide the desired feeling, but maybe in a different way. When in a relationship, it is good to communicate needs on many levels, but also if it is just a one-off. You are hooking up for this reason so you might as well get from it what you want.As per the saying, “If you don’t ask, you don’t get”.
Popular toys for partner play.
Now, there are so many tools that can take any session to another level but here are 3 of the most popular.
Double enders
A best seller is the double-ended dildo these bad boys are great for both providing anal satisfaction to two people at the same time. I can speak from experience that it is great fun getting the in correct position to maximise pleasure. If used as a normal dildo, it becomes a very large dildo as the length is often much longer than a standard dildo.
Electrostimulation and remote-controlled tools
Shockingly good and can be very intense. These tools come in a variety of manhood and rear-end toys. Plus, a selection of fetish tools for nipple play, BDSM and sounding. The idea is that you use the toy on yourself or your partner, and it can be controlled by anyone. Once in place, you can switch it on to vibrate, rotate or provide Electrostimulation. A personal favourite is to use an electro-stim cock ring during the action. The extra sensation this provides is great and can give an amazing climax.
Enhancers toys
Not everybody is gifted an 8-inch weapon and that is OK, the connection, intimacy and action will not suffer because of it. I really feel this is true. This does not mean you can’t enhance the size if asked for or if this is something you want yourself. Penis Pumps can help temporarily increase size, but a best seller on esmale.com are Cock Sheaths. These fit around your manhood increasing the size and girth. The Oxballs range is very popular, they are easy to slip, and theystay on. Made from superb quality materials so both the top and bottom can have a great time!
In short
Using toys during your sessions can be a great way to increase the fun, and it certainly can ensure you get all you desire. Now it might not be for everybody but if you want to try it, open the door just by suggesting it. A simple, “I have some tools we can use if you are up for it?” is often enough to get things started. I have listed our stores below so you can have a look and hopefully find some products that can take things to the next level for you. Enjoy!
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