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Love it or hate it, the festive season is here again. At esmale HQ we have a collection of lovers and haters. Imagine the fun, some are twirling around the warehouse, and some put their headphones on when Mariah Carey tells us once again what she wants for Christmas. Regardless of how you feel about Christmas, it is hard to escape the fact you might need to buy a gift for someone. This is where we come in. We offer adult tools, sexy gear, kink, sex essentials and some of the best poppers in the UK. With that in mind, we will focus on gifts with an adult edge in this article. Hopefully, it provides you with some fun and hot ideas to put a smile on someone’s face this Christmas. It is the season to be merry after all.  

Some tips first!

Know your audience

Before you gift someone a gay dildo or other sexual gift, make sure he is the kind of guy who would appreciate such a gift or at least see the fun side of it. I once gave a friend a Fleshjack masturbator, and that did not go down well. Somehow, my giving him that gift meant that I thought he could not get laid. That was nowhere near the truth, but you can’t always predict how people take things. It was certainly a lesson, and I now think hard before I buy one to ensure it will be appreciated. Luckily, most of my friends are a bit on the kinky side, so I do not have to worry too much.  A second tip would be the timing of the gift-giving. Maybe don’t give an adult gift when there are kids in the room or family members who might take offence. Once you are certain you have considered the audience here are some ideas that might go down well this Christmas.

Toys as a gift

While gay sex toys might be the riskiest gifts there are some that are both pleasurable and a fun gift. Take Cloneboy for example, this casts a dildo from your penis. This could be a fun gift for your partner for those moments you are away and he wants something to remember you by. Another idea would be gifting electro sex toys: these are fun, exciting and shockingly enjoyable. They cater to bum, manhood, solo and fun for couples. You could insert a toy into your partner and remotely control it, what a way to make Christmas dinner more interesting. 

Never enough essentials

Especially for those friends that you know have an active sex life, essentials are a great idea. From a bottle of poppers to a triple pack of hybrid lube, you just know that it will come to good use. For those that do Secret Santa, essentials are a great buy. Especially as the budget set is often low and aimed at funny and gimmicky gifts. Lube, pills, poppers and cream can be bought with a starting price of £3.99 and will suit pretty much any budget. 

Gay adult Christmas gift guide includes sexy wear

Sexy Wear

This is our busiest department running up to Christmas, along with our calendars, which are almost sold out already. You can’t go wrong with a sexy pair of briefs or a nice jockstrap. In the last few years, we have seen an increase in fetish gear with brands like Breedwell and Darkroom being very popular. If you want to push the fetish agenda a bit further you can always opt for some fun BDSM gear like a travel sling, under-the-bed restrain kit or a simple blindfold or cuffs. This will spice up the action a bit and make a fun gift, that is what we call a win-win. 

Gay adult Christmas gift guide includes kink

December Sale

We would not write about all these ideas without allowing you to get your presents for less. During the whole of December, we are running great deals on both esmale.com and poppersupershop.com. We have storewide deals and even a special December sale area where you will find the biggest savings. Get yourself across to our online stores and find yourself a nice Christmas gift that will be fun, pleasurable and is often good for a giggle!

Have an amazing Christmas and we already wish you the best for 2025.

With love 

Team www.esmale.com 

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