Let’s Talk Lube: a gentle guide to slippery fun from esmale.com

When it comes to must-have bedroom staples, lube is high on the list, along with your favourite poppers. But with so many choices—water-based, silicone-based, thick, thin, hybrid—it can be hard to know which bottle to reach for.

Today, we’re giving a shoutout to four of our favourite brands: Liquid Silk, ID Lube, Gun Oil, and Fist It. Each one has its own vibe and purpose, and whether you’re playing solo, with a partner, or diving deep into kinkier fun, there’s a perfect match for you.

Liquid Silk – the smooth operator

• Formula: Water-based with a touch of silicone
• Texture: Silky, light, long-lasting
• Best for: Everyday play, couples, toys

Liquid Silk has been around for ages—and with good reason. It’s a hybrid formula, meaning it’s water-based with a bit of silicone, so you get the easy clean-up and a longer glide.

It’s perfect for regular sessions when you want things to feel natural but enhanced. And yes—it’s totally safe with condoms and most toys. No surprise you find this bottle in many nightstands, probably next to a bottle of rush poppers.

ID Lube – the all-rounder

• Formula: Mostly water-based but also silicone.
• Texture: Medium consistency
• Best for: Versatile use, solo play, toys, oral

ID Glide Lube is one of those lubes you’ll keep coming back to. It’s reliable, smooth, and doesn’t stain. Whether you’re using it with toys, for oral, or just want a clean, easy session, it’s got you covered.

Plus, there are lots of variations: silicone versions like ID Millennium, flavoured options, even warming lubes.

Gun Oil – the heavy-duty hero

• Formula: Silicone-based and water-based
• Texture: Slick, long-lasting
• Best for: Anal, shower sex, longer sessions

Gun Oil was developed with performance in mind. Its silicone-based formula is waterproof, long-lasting, and perfect for extended sessions—especially if you’re playing rough or in the shower.

Just avoid using it with silicone toys!

Fist It – the kink king

• Formula: Water-based
• Texture: Thick, cushiony
• Best for: Fisting, stretching, toy play

Built for those going deeper, Fist It is the choice for fisting, anal training, or intense toy sessions. It’s super thick and long-lasting while still being water-based, which means easy clean-up and toy compatibility.

Handy travel bottles and tubs make mid-play top-ups easy.

You can find our entire collection here: Shop anal lube

So… which one should you choose?

Here’s a quick cheat sheet:

Final thoughts from Esmale

There’s no such thing as too much lube. The right one can make sex safer, more pleasurable, and more adventurous. Whether you’re easing into a fun night with a partner or pushing your limits with some serious exploration, lube is your friend.

At www.esmale.com, we stock all these brands (and more) because we know everybody—and every bottom—is different. Explore, experiment, and don’t be afraid to try a few until you find the one that fits your play style best. Now is the right time, as many lubes are discounted in the Summer sale. We have 1000’s of items reduced in price. For the best value lube, we would suggest checking out our multi-packs. The bigger the pack, the better value you will get per bottle.

If you want more information about our lube range or lube in general, feel free to contact us. We have a great team of experts happy to help.

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So go ahead—lube up, slide in, and have fun.

With love, team esmale.