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Have you ever felt the pull from both sides – the one while you feel stuck between fun and settling down? Are you torn between living a life of going out every weekend and finding that special someone to spend the rest of your life with? In gay culture, sometimes it seems like these two options are found on different worlds… but is that really the case?

The truth is that we don’t have to separate these two things! Of course, we can still have fun and be in a monogamous relationship! For one, going out on the weekends doesn’t have to end once you put a gold band on that ring finger. You and your partner are allowed to dance, you know! Additionally, sometimes fun means something as simple as spending every night on the couch with your person, or waking up next to them every morning.

Your life doesn’t have to get “boring” when you partner with a matchmaker. Sometimes, it means the start of the best adventure of your life.

QX caught up with founders Andrea and Vinko to find out more.

Why go with a matchmaker when a seemingly endless amount of dating sites exists?

If dating sites were as effective as many claim to be, then why are there so many? While dating sites may have their place, the truth of the matter is that when you use a dating site, you’re faced with an endless sea of individuals, many of whom are not looking for the same things you’re looking for. In many cases, it makes filtering out those you align with practically impossible. As a matchmaker, Beau Brummell Introductions gets to know your potential matches for you – so you don’t have to scroll and scroll until your thumb is tired.

What makes Beau Brummell Introductions different from other matchmakers?

Beau Brummell is a dating agency for gay men

Well, we get to know you – which means we get to know all your potential matches as well. We have a conversation with each person in our database, tackling all the important topics relevant to dating – from the serious to the mundane. From there, it’s a matter of numbers. Beau Brummell has a massive database of gay men, each interested in finding a long-term relationship. This means that we have a greater chance of finding someone for you.

Algorithms can solve pretty complex problems, couldn’t someone just use a service that utilizes one?

To this day, an algorithm has never been in a relationship. An algorithm doesn’t know what it means to go on a first date, a second date, a third date, or a one hundred and twenty-third date. Luckily, Beau Brummell Introductions isn’t run by an algorithm – its run by people, Andrea and Vinko. We know love because we are in love, and we want others to find it. As both human beings and professionals, we understand the messy, thrilling, and complicated aspects of love. It’s not math, it’s social. It’s what we were born (not programmed) to do!

How can Beau Brummell help someone who’s been single for so long and just wants to settle down?

We get it, we’ve all been there. Sometimes, the gay dating scene can feel like an endless sea of hookups and short-term flings. But trust us, there are plenty of gay men out there who want to find lasting love. Despite what the media may tell you, gay men are not just interested in one-night stands after a night at the club. There are men searching for more, and you can take our word for it because we work with them! We wouldn’t be in business or have the success rate we do if they didn’t exist.

Beau Brummell will get to know you and what makes you tick. It’s not just a questionnaire or half-baked survey, though. You’ll actually talk to a human, someone who understands what it’s like to desire love and is also an expert in finding matches.

Isn’t partnering with a matchmaker a big commitment?

It absolutely is. Love, like all things worthwhile in life, takes a huge step, and sometimes even sacrifices. The fact that it’s a huge commitment, though, means that those who have partnered with us are ready and willing to take this massive step forward in life. It means that your matches have also made that huge step.

Your investment is worth it because we work tirelessly to find you a match, so you can focus on what actually builds a romance: meeting someone and getting to know them.

You are in good hands!

Saturday gay night with WLQP at The George IV pub in London

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