In our many years of supplying the UK with sex tools, kink and sexy wear, we have been given a front seat to see what kink many of you are into, and believe us, it goes much deeper than getting some poppers from our poppers shop. We have done some research and talked to some customers so we can set out the top 3 kinks that seem to keep the nation busy.

BDSM & Role Play

Being in control or getting controlled is something we seem to enjoy the most. Bringing a fantasy to life by way of dressing up or role play is at the top of the list. We see this reflected in the amount of BDSM we sell. From gay bondage restraints to hogties, leather cuffs, BDSM starter packs, hoods and more. Customer feedback showed that is their kink of choice for the following reasons.

Escapism & Fantasy – It allows them to step into a different persona or scenario, making things feel fresh and exciting. Any stressful day can be forgotten after a good session.
Increased Intimacy – Exploring different roles can create a deeper emotional and psychological connection with a partner.
Power Dynamics – Some people enjoy exploring dominance, submission, or other dynamics in a safe and consensual way.
Boosting Confidence – Playing a role can help people feel more confident and less self-conscious.

Nipple Play

This one surprised me as I am not a fan myself, but we love getting our nipples tweaked, sucked, pulled and yanked. Our nipple suckers collection is a hit with many. I am not sure why, but it is not for me. They just don’t react to touch much and pulling them just hurts. My partner however is obsessed with it. As soon as we are getting to it, he wants his nipples yanked or sucked, which in contrast to getting them pulled, I do love. Some people just enjoy a bit of pain it seems or have a higher threshold. Maybe I would be able to handle it better with some jungle juice poppers.

Some nipples play benefits:

For many, the nipples are highly sensitive erogenous zones with many nerve endings, playing with them can lead to full-body arousal. I have heard rumours about nipple orgasms, but I can’t confirm this.
The release of endorphins during nipple stimulation can reduce stress and enhance relaxation.

Fisting

This one does not need much explanation, we assume, just make sure you have plenty of fisting lube at the ready. Here are some reasons our customers enjoy it so much:

Deep trust and Intimacy. This activity requires a deep level of trust, patience and communication. Giving that trust to someone creates a high level of intimacy.
Linking back to a previous point, fisting involves a certain level of power and control which for many is a turn-on.
If done safely and correctly, it can lead to a very enjoyable feeling of fullness that can even result in an almost meditative or trance-like feeling. This said, it is not for everybody. Always ensure safety, consent, and communication are at the forefront.

So, there you have it. This is some of what Kinky UK get up to in private or not-so-private.

Kink in general

Exploring your kinky side is a great thing. You will be surprised by the things your body and mind enjoy. There are so many different kinds of kinks that it might take a while to discover yours. I only found out that I enjoyed edging because a guy I was seeing was into it, so I tried and loved it. Before that point, it was not even on my radar. So, whatever someone is into, keep an open mind and give it a go if you are curious. We recommend that when exploring kink or participating in hardcore action, you have a stop-word. Saying this word will stop whatever is happening, it also creates a sense of safety, allowing you to fully give in to the pleasure.

In our stores, which are listed below, we have a massive collection of kink & fetish products. We also have some serious fetish poppers in our sister site, PopperSuperShop. Have a look at our stores and start exploring or extending your journey.

For Sex Tools and kink visit: https://www.esmale.com/

For Poppers visit https://www.poppersupershop.com/

With Love,

Ollie

From team esmale!