The new year has arrived, and we are here for it. I am one of those guys who makes New Year’s resolutions hoping to get the most out of life. Now, as I am working at Esmale some resolutions are about gay sex toys and trying new poppers in the UK, but those are hardly life-changing. I would call them enhancing. More about that later. In 2024 my biggest goal is to drink a bit less or at least try and remember the night before and I am going to look into volunteering. Aren’t I a good boy? Those who know me will answer that with a big NO!

Back to life-enhancing adult products

Now, whilst I am working on life-changing resolution I will for sure find it easier to get some life-enhancing things achieved first. Since starting my job at Esmale I have found that “feeding” my body with the joy it craves gave me joy and helped me relax. It might sound a bit heavy, but it also improved my mental health. When coming home after a stressful day or situation I frequently take on some self-pleasure. This helps me put the day behind me and it relaxes me. This in addition to the fun a Fleshjack for example can give you. Personally, I like to use some room aromas as they make it that much more intense. For 2024 however, I have a different goal. I want to learn how to be a better bottom. I am vertical as they say it but mostly top. When it comes to bottoming, I am always worried about the initial pain it can cause so I often don’t do it whilst I do enjoy the sensation after the initial discomfort.

So, on my wish list, this year are anal toys. But a brand creatively called Stretch. They go from small to massive. This way I can train myself to a level I become more of a yes-man when it comes to bottoming. I am looking forward to getting the practice in at home before setting up a play date!

More than just adult play

As you might have gathered, I am a bit fan of adult fun but another area I really need to improve is taking more pride in is my appearance. I am a “just throwing things on” and “this will do” kind of a guy. Even though it does not bother me, I do on occasion feel a bit like I should have made a bit more of an effort. This also translates to my underwear. It is not like I wear torn underwear, but I keep them long enough that the fit is no longer hugging my assets. Personally I love a guy in sexy well-fitting underwear so I should wear what I like to see on others. Some brands I love are Breedwell and Addicted underwear. Following through with this might not be life changing but it will make me feel better in a looking after myself kind of way.

Not all about me!

Apart from sharing my resolutions and insecurities, I am also writing this to encourage you to do the same. Why not use this year to find out what your body loves? Get yourself on the self-pleasuring train and once you get going, I am sure you won’t want to get off. For those that are already on it, put some extra fuel in the engine and really test your boundaries, Choo Choo!